Male Perineum Massage

Male perineum massage

Regardless of sexual orientation, if you and your man enjoy being stimulated, then you will have the potential to take your pleasure over the edge.

What is a perineum massage?

The perineum is the area of skin directly underneath a man's genital region.

In men, this penny sized pleasure point is the prostate, which is found inside the anal canal. The prostate's primary function, however, is to aid in male reproduction. It does this by secreting a fluid into semen before ejaculation occurs, helping with sperm mobility and prolonging the life of the sperm once it leaves the male body.

Relaxation is important for setting the stage for pleasure. Some men relax by taking a warm bath. Others begin by sensuously massaging their man's body, slowly leading to the butt and inner thighs, using or adding massage oil or lubricant. For safer perineal play, you can wear a latex glove with a dab of water-based lubricant on it.

How to give a male perineum massage

You can begin massaging the male prostate externally by stimulating the perineum. Using your index and middle fingertips, you can touch, rub, stroke or press his perineum, trying various sensations and pressures. Using your other hand, you can stroke other parts of his body for additional arousal. This is the beginning of the massage, so encourage your man to communicate with you about what feels good to him.

Now that you've touched on your man's sensitive nerve, try using some water-based lubricant. Gradually move your fingers in an upward motion along the wall of the perineum area. Try to locate a round bulb of tissue; this is the male prostate. Then try using your finger pads and the tips of your fingers to massage the prostate, and be mindful of not using your nails against his perineum. Ask him what feels good and how he wants to be touched. While you are touching your man in this way, you can ask if he wants more or less pressure on his perineum, or slower or faster strokes. He also may want you to touch other parts of his body to heighten his pleasure.

Is male perineum massage safe?

Receiving perineum stimulation may cause feelings of having to go to the bathroom. More often than not, this is just a feeling that the stimulation causes and may take some getting used to. If your man does find pleasure from this experience, it might set him over the edge if you rhythmically or irregularly press on his prostate gland. It is even possible for men to orgasm through prostate stimulation alone. Clean fingers with clipped, smoothly filed nails are safe for male perineal stimulation.